Can Self Hypnosis Make You a Better Lover?
Most of us have heard that self-hypnosis can be applied to goals such as losing weight or smoking cessation. but many people don’t realize that self hypnosis can do a lot more than help you break terrible habits. It can really help you feel sexier and even perform better in the bedroom
Self hypnosis is an excellent tool for getting past the inner critic, the part of us that sometimes bars the way to change and self-improvement. Hypnosis lets us get past the inner critic and impart powerful ideas that reprogram the mind and body to behave in a new way. when it comes to being a better lover, self hypnosis provides a simple means for tapping our innate sensuality, our ability to relax during romantic involvement and to feel more pleasure. and when we relax and release our worries and inhibitions, the body is freed to perform naturally and optimally. It’s really a matter of getting out of our own way.
The subconscious responds well to hypnotic suggestions that either leads us away from pain, or toward pleasure. because sensual and sexual feelings are so clearly pleasurable, this area is one of the simplest to affect with self hypnosis.
The most effective hypnotic suggestions to use to become a better lover are often those designed to impress upon the subconscious that it’s perfectly acceptable to see one’s self as a sensual, sexual being and to relax and delight in it.
The reality is that human beings, on the whole, are sexual creatures. so in order to feel sexy and romantic, you can use self hypnosis suggestions that support this notion. An example of a self hypnosis suggestion to feel sexier might be, I fully embrace my body and personality as sexual. I am a sexual, sensual being.
It’s remarkable how many women say they don’t feel deep down that they have a right to feel pleasure, so they suppress their natural sexual feelings and yearnings. Self hypnosis may be used in these cases to give women permission to let their feelings and desires flow freely.
An example of a self hypnosis suggestion for women might be, As I engage in romantic activity, I relax and let my mind and body bring forth natural desires and pleasurable sensations.
As for men, it seems that many are so worried about their performance, that the resulting stress inhibits a full and lasting physical experience. Some men resort to the little blue pill when the answer may be much simpler and less costly.
An example of a self hypnosis suggestion for men might be, I relax and flow easily and let all of my senses become fully engorged with desire and pleasure.
Of course, a self hypnosis session to become a better lover should always include imagining a realistic situation in which one is engaged in a romantic interlude. these hypnotic mental rehearsals go a long way in communicating to the inner mind the precise nature of the intended outcome.
Therefore, when performing self hypnosis to become a better lover, here is a general guideline:
- Determine how you would like to be a better lover
- Craft some simple suggestions to relax and delight in your life as a better lover
- Make vivid imaginings of just how it will feel to be a better lover
- Perform self hypnosis for your goal every day for seven to twenty-one days
Remember that during any one self hypnosis session, only deal with one major topic at a time. so if you want to be a better lover, just stick to that goal for your sessions until you achieve results.
And in seven to twenty-one days, you will learn that you have, indeed, become a better lover and can experience greater pleasure than you ever thought possible. all thanks to self hypnosis. The power was yours all along.